Find Your True North
Whether your marriage is
shaking, breaking, or already behind you.
The Fathers Compass provides coaching for men in unstable marriages, contemplating divorce, navigating separation, or rebuilding after — with clarity, structure, and steady leadership.
PROBLEM / EMPATHY
If life feels unsteady right now,
you’re not alone.
Some men arrive here in the middle of divorce. Others come earlier — when the marriage feels unstable, communication is breaking down, and they’re quietly wondering whether things can be repaired or if the ground is already giving way.
What The Fathers Compass
Helps you build
Whether you’re trying to stabilize a struggling marriage or rebuild after divorce, the work is the same: clarity first, discipline second, momentum always.
01. Clarity
Cut through the noise. Understand what matters, what doesn’t, and what comes next.
02. Structure
Simple, practical frameworks so decisions aren’t made in panic or reaction.
03. Accountability
Straight talk and steady guidance — without emotion, bias, or theatrics.
04. Strength
Emotional discipline, better communication, and grounded leadership as a man and a father.
The Compass Method
Steady
way forward
Whether you’re trying to stabilize a struggling marriage or rebuild after divorce, the work is the same: clarity first, discipline second, momentum always.
Meet Steve Bowles
I spent nearly 30 years in law enforcement, much of it in leadership roles, followed by time as a Dean of Students. My career has been spent guiding people through high-stress moments where decisions matter.
I’ve also lived through divorce. I understand the fog, the anger, and the quiet moments where you question who you are and what comes next.
Men arrive here at different stages. There’s no single starting line.
My approach is simple: we meet you where you are — not where you think you should be — and help you move forward with clarity, accountability, and strength.
Values and Faith
Faith, values, and beliefs often sit at the center of marriage and family- especially during separation or divorce. For some men, faith is a foundation. For others, it’s complicated or still taking shape.
We meet you where you are. Faith is respected, never forced, and never used as a weapon. When it matters to you, it matters here.
Ways we can work together at any stage
Compass Call (Start Here)
A complimentary conversation to assess where you are, what you’re facing, and what matters next.
It’s okay to be alone.
It’s not okay to be lonely.
At some point, questions about dating surface. Timing matters.
Being alone can be healthy and grounding. Loneliness is a signal — not a sentence. This work helps men become solid on their own so future relationships are chosen from strength, not reaction.
Questions You
Might Have
Still have Questions?
No. This is coaching.
No. I’m not an attorney.
Yes. Many men come before divorce — when clarity matters most.
No. Coaching starts by meeting you where you are.
That’s often why men start.
Wherever you are in the storm
you don’t have to drift
If your marriage feels unstable, you’re contemplating divorce, or you’re rebuilding after it, the first step is the same: get clear, get grounded, and move forward deliberately.